The Secret To Getting A Girlfriend

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Getting a girlfriend can be a real struggle for many men.

They already know how to approach a woman and get her phone number.

They have already figured out what to text a girl in order to get her out on a date.

And they’ve already learned that attracting women is easyonce you’ve already got down the basics and know what it is that you’re doing.

But what they haven’t yet figured out is, once you’ve gotten a girl attracted to you, how do you keep her in your life and turn her into something more than somebody who you simply have sex with?

How do you turn a girl you like into your girlfriend?

The Secret to Getting A Girlfriend

In order to turn a woman into your girlfriend, you first have to know how to get women attracted to you. After you have already gotten a woman attracted to you, you must know how to move and progress the interaction forward, get her somewhere alone with you, and take her to bed.

That out of the way, I have 3 simple steps for turning girls you like and have interest in, into your girlfriend.

  1. Identify the women you like and approach them.
  2. Get a phone number and get them out on a date with you.
  3. Sexually Escalate and get them into bed.

Identifying The Women You Like And Approaching Them…

The first thing you must do in order to get a girlfriend is to begin meeting new women. If you’re not meeting women, you’re not getting any phone numbers, and if you’re not getting any phone numbers then you’re not getting any dates, no dates means no lovers, which in the end means no girlfriend.

So begin by getting out of the house and approaching the women whom you find the most interesting. And don’t let your fear of getting rejected stand in your way (Remember: Rejection Means Nothing!)

Focus on talking to and interacting with lot’s of different women to increase your chances of meeting and hitting it off with the right one. By focusing on approaching the right amount of women, your chances of getting a girlfriend will automatically increase based simply on the law of averages and statistics.

Getting Her Phone Number And A Date…

Getting a girl’s phone number is easy, once you’ve already built up enough attraction within her. Getting a woman’s phone number all comes down to knowing how to lead women and make statements instead of asking questions.

It ends up looking like this:

(After the girl and the guy is both laughing, enjoying each other’s company, and hitting a high point.)

Guy: Let’s grab a cup of coffee or a bite to eat sometime this week. Here, let me get your phone number.

Girl: Okay, it’s xxx-xxx-xxxx

Because the guy showed leadership, confidence, and didn’t ask for permission, the girl simply followed his lead and exchanged phone numbers with him. As opposed to…

Guy: So, um yeah, can I get your phone number?

Girl: Um, I don’t know, here how about I take yours instead?

The guy in this example and dialogue only proves that he doesn’t really understand women at all.

He hesitates and asks the woman for permission if he can have her phone number, and women being the way they are, mirrored his response right back to him by essentially declining his offer and refusing to give him her phone number.

(Sidenote: Whenever a girl refuses to give you her phone number and instead asks to have yours, that is a rejection (albeit a much nicer, more sociable way to let a guy down.)

Getting a woman’s phone number then, simply comes down to making a statement and telling a woman to give you her number, asking for her phone number on a high point of the conversation when you are both laughing and clearly enjoying each other’s company, and of course leading well.

Once you’ve gotten her phone number, you simply text her to set up a date or you make the first phone call to her.

Sexually Escalating On A Date and Getting Women Into Bed…

Once you’ve gotten on a woman out and on a date with you, you can begin physically escalating and providing good, stimulating conversation to them.

When you first meet a woman for a date, never shake her hand. Instead hug her or simply don’t make no contact at all. I’ve found that shaking a woman’s hand when you first meet them for a date makes the interaction seem more like a friendship or a business meeting.

Hug her, but never shake a girls hand.

When on a date with a woman, sit beside her and NOT across from her. Sitting across from her on a date makes the interaction seem awkward, weird, and it prevents you from touching her (which is important if you want to get women aroused and get them wet).

(See: What To Talk To Girls About On A Date If you’re wondering what to say and talk about with women when you’re out on a date with them.)

After 1 or 2 hours of good conversation and touching, invite her home with you, and once you’ve got her at your place, move fast and quickly escalate to sex.

Transitioning Her From Your Lover To Your Girlfriend…

After you’ve had sexual intercourse with a woman, she is officially yours and from that point on, transitioning her to your girlfriend is simple. Simply increase the frequency and number of times that you see her and have sex with her.

After a while it will begin to become obvious that you and her is “exclusive” and from that point on, you can begin doing things for her that a regular boyfriend would do.

You can begin taking her out to nice dinners, taking her out to see a movie, and going out together to the beach or even the park and simply holding hands.

Getting a girlfriend isn’t hard once you are able to attract women and get them into bed with you. The hardest part is getting them invested into you in the beginning, and then after that, it’s easy sailing.

Continue reading here: The Truth About Picking Up Women

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