Stop Chasing Women, Start Chasing Money

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No, I am not advising you to actually chase money because that is NOT how you actually make money. I only chose that specific title because it sounded cool and interesting.

But on a more serious note… chasing women is BAD and is one of the biggest things that prevents you from attracting the women you truly want.

Most men are guilty of chasing women, some men do it without even realizing it. I am convinced that EVERY man has at least ONCE in his life chased a girl.

But why do so many men continue to chase women even though chasing women NEVER works?

Answer: because chasing women is mostly an emotional reaction that “just happens”. You don’ t plan to chase a girl, you just do.

In this article, I am going to reveal the reasons for why you should stop chasing women and instead start chasing money and improving your overall lifestyle.

You Do NOT Need Money to Get Girls or Get Laid

I felt the need to address this point first because many guys will try to point out the fact that you do not need money in order to get girls. And I wholeheartedly agree.

As a matter of fact, I have already systematically addressed this topic in the article “Do You Need Money to Get Girls?” and in that article I basically said that you don’ t need to have money in order to get girls but… having money does make getting girls much easier.

The simple truth of the matter is that a man who has his lifestlyle and “shit” together will on average get laid more than a man who doesnt. That’ s not saying that having game and approaching women is unneccesary – that’ s just common sense.

In the same way, a woman would prefer to sleep with a handsome attractive looking man MORE than a man who dressed slobbily, had very poor hygiene and fashion sense and smelled bad. Again that’ s not claiming that men who are ugly and dress sloppily dont get laid, that’ s just some basic common sense that any 2nd grader knows and understands.

So with that out of the way, let me tell you the reasons for why a man should stop chasing women and instead place all of his focus and energy on actually chasing and making money.

Chase Money and Women Will Chase YOU

In the article “Why You Should Never Get a Job or Go to College” I mentioned that most people go about seeking success and making money in the wrong way.

Well… when it comes to learning how to pick up women most men go about it completely the wrong way.

Let me tell you a little secret: You should NEVER try to fit yourself into a womans life and schedule. Women should be trying to fit themselves into YOUR life and schedule, NOT the other way around.

If you stop chasing women and start chasing money… then women will chase YOU.

Why?

Because women want what they can’ t have and a guy who doesn’ t give a girl any attention intrigues her and makes her become curious about him.

She begins wondering and saying to herself “Most guys chase after me and try to brag to me and win me over, why isnt THIS guy doing the same thing?”

When you STOP chasing women and you START chasing money, you very quickly develop an abundance mentality because you do not place women on a pedastal nor do you seek to get any validation from them.

Instead your validation is making money, starting your own business, and becoming more successful… because your mentality is…

“Women are a dime a dozen”.

“Women are just like buses, once you miss one, another one is right around the corner to take its place”.

“Girls are a commodity and can very easily be replaced”.

When you start developing THIS kind of mentality, your interactions and success with women take on a WHOLE new level.

Women will be able to just sense that they are not all that important in your life because you are a man on a mission. A man who is fearless and takes risks.

You are very selfish and you do not have any time for drama, games, and all of that other non-sense that most beta males have to deal with. But you are different from the “average man”.

Your motto to girls is: Either she will chase or she will be replaced.

If they do not chase then they are very quickly replaced because youre a man with “options”, a man with LOT’S of choice, and a man with plenty of resources.

But Isn’t Chasing Money BAD?

No… chasing women is BAD but chasing money is GOOD.

Now, you don’ t literally focus on chasing money, you actually focus on earning money. You don’ t make money, you earn money.

When you place all of your focus and energy on building and improving your lifestyle, starting your own business, building muscle, and lifting weights.

When you do these things, you throw women on the backburner in your life and precisely BECAUSE of this… girls become intrigued and want to learn more about you.

Stop Chasing Women, Start Chasing Money

Stop chasing women and trying to seek validation from them.

Stop trying to make girls like you.

Stop being nice and sensitive.

Start being selfish and prideful.

Start chasing money and improving your lifestyle

Stop chasing women… start chasing money… and let women chase YOU.

Either girls will chase… or they will be replaced.

Continue reading here: What is Your Motivation?

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Readers' Questions

  • taija v
    How to stop chasing her and make her chase you?
    1 year ago
    1. Make yourself less available. Spend time with your family and friends and focus on your own goals and ambitions.
    2. Show her that you aren’t desperate for her attention or approval.
    3. Don’t be afraid to be independent; take charge of your own life and be confident in yourself.
    4. Don’t be too eager when you do talk to her. Be mysterious, give her a bit of a chase.
    5. Show her that you have a life outside of her. Don’t focus all your attention on her.
    • arvid
      How to make women chase you?
      1 year ago
      1. Be confident. Women are drawn to men who are confident and secure in themselves. Speak with an air of certainty and don't be afraid to make decisions.
      2. Be mysterious. Appear mysterious and keep her guessing. Give her bits of information about yourself but don't tell her everything.
      3. Give her space. Let her come to you. Don't be too clingy or needy. A woman will be more likely to chase you if she can sense your independence.
      4. Be passionate about something. Show her that you are passionate about pursuing and living your own life. When a woman sees that you are passionate and determined, she will be drawn to you.
      5. Show kindness. Show genuine care and consideration for others, and be kind. Women are attracted to men who have a strong sense of empathy and compassion.
      • angelica
        Do girls like to be chased?
        1 year ago
      • It depends on the individual. Some girls may appreciate the chase and enjoy being pursued, while others may find it uncomfortable or even intimidating. Ultimately, it depends on the girl and her individual preferences.
        • ruaridh burns
          Do women like to be chased?
          1 year ago
        • It depends on the individual. Generally speaking, some women may find it flattering to be pursued, while others may find it overwhelming or off-putting. Ultimately, it all depends on the context, the individual, and the feelings between the two people.
          • marko
            How to stop chasing women?
            1 year ago
            1. Recognize that chasing women is not necessary for dating success. You can increase your chances of finding a meaningful relationship without chasing women.
            2. Focus on your own life and interests. Take time to pursue your own goals and hobbies, and don’t make finding a woman your main focus.
            3. Don’t feel like you have to impress women with gifts or grand gestures. Seek out authentic connections based on common interests and shared values.
            4. Respect women’s wishes. Respect a woman’s wishes if she expresses disinterest or clearly states she’s not interested. Don’t keep trying to win her affection if she has already rejected your advances.
            5. Combat insecurity and low self-esteem. Address any underlying issues of insecurity or low self-esteem that may be causing you to over-pursue women. This can be done through counseling, therapy, or self-help strategies.
            • Robur
              How to make a girl chase your validation?
              1 year ago
            • The best way to make a girl chase your validation is to create a dynamic where you maintain an air of mystery and aloofness. Let her invest in the relationship and work for your attention and approval. Give her just enough to make her want more, but don't give too much, too soon. Let her take the initiative and be patient. Show her you appreciate her effort and make her feel special.