Stop Being a Bitch Around Women
When we were younger it was engrained in our heads through multiple outlets that you were to find that one special person and create a family together, riding off into the sunset.
All of that may come in time, but it never happens so swiftly.
Being a male millennial, I have had my encounters with women of all types. Ones who I could see myself with in the long run as well as ones who I could never get far away enough from.
There has been one constant to this point, none of them have lasted. Now, I know the time will come for my day and the chips will fall as they are meant to. It took a long, bumpy road to develop that mindset but I would not trade it for anything in the world.
Unfortunately, a lot of my fellow millennial brethren hit rock bottom when it comes to an unsuccessful relationship. They lose the concept of their own lives and are swept up in a downfall that can last months.
Here are some mistakes you are making and how/why you need to stop.
Blowing Up Her Phone
She does not return your messages or call you when she says she will…
You go off your rocker and think you have been betrayed and cannot help but be stuck in your own head all day about what she could possibly be doing…
“She could be with another guy, she could be in an awkward emotional place, she may not like me!”
Yes! Yes, all of those could be true. Shut up, sit back and do your own thing.
If a woman wanted to see, talk or hear from you she would make that possible. It is not playing a game. It is giving her space and more importantly, giving yourself space to evaluate what you may have had.
Maybe you step back and think “wow, she could go off and act like this at any moment?”
You do not have time for that do you?
Of course not.
Thinking She Was The One
So, out of the billions of people in the world this was the ONE.
How do you truly know?
You had so much in common but it is hard to see who else you have things in common with when you try to spend every waking moment with that same individual.
There are a lot of women out there that have more in common with you than the “one that got away.”
It may take some searching and digging around but when you fill your time up with the activities you enjoy doing, “she” may come around before you know it.
She may have been “one” of the ones but was she THE “one?”
Being Depressed For Days On End
Stop this shit right now. You break up with a girl and all of a sudden your life is over. You become gloomy, snippy and an overall piss poor excuse of a man.
You contributed all the value of your life at the current moment to ONE single girl. Forget the fact that you may have a great support system in your family, a plethora of friends or hobbies to keep you busy for days on end.
This woman was the dot to every “I” and cross to every “t?”
People come and go in your life and the sooner you can recognize that and accept it, the more you allow yourself to enjoy each day as it is.
Never Dating Again
This ties slightly into #2 but fuck it. I myself have said something along the lines of never dating again for a long time after ending a relationship.
You know what happened?
I would meet a badass girl, find that we had a great time together and casually date them.
It was great. I had someone for the time being that I could hang out with and go through daily experiences with. Whether it lasted long or not, it did not matter.
I had a girl completely disappear on me, complete absence of any contact after we went out twice. She was fun, younger than I and frankly, I had no idea where it would go but was enjoying the ride.
Personally, I would inform someone when I was not really feeling it anymore but again, fuck it.
We as men like to act as if we are cold to all situations and have no feelings. Women know as well as we do that it is bullshit. The façade just contributes to the games and feeds the turbulent relationship wheel.
If you see yourself going nowhere with a woman, drop it.
You should hope she does the same because that is your time and who is she to waste it?
It may hurt at first but the longer you stay involved with a women who does not appreciate you, the longer it will be before you find the one that does.
The more people and relationships you experience, the closer you are to finding what you are truly looking for.
When it comes down to it, shit happens. You can throw your two middle fingers up and catch the flow or you can drown in it.
In summary, stop being a bitch around women.
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