How to Handle Rejection Like a Man
How do you react when you are getting rejected by a woman?
Imagine the following situation…
You are enjoying your day by walking along the streets and looking at all the beautiful women in miniskirts.
Suddenly, you see one girl who sets herself apart from all the other girls. She is way more beautiful and has a walk that seems to be the definition of pure femininity.
You can’t think of anything else than walking up to her and getting to know her. You stop her and tell her how beautiful she is.
What happens next destroys ALL the happiness and energy inside of you…
With a harsh “not interested!” she walks right through you.
Isn’t this devastating?
Isn’t this the most demotivating thing that can happen?
What if I tell you that getting rejected is not as bad as it seems and that it is actually a great opportunity for you and for your game?
Accept Rejection as a Part of the Game
Before you can regard rejection as the positive thing that it is, it is important that you realize some truths that a lot of people don’t tell you. In the pickup industry there is this famous marketing lie that you will never get rejected if you use the right opener or line.
A lot of guys in the industry use this in order to sell you some stupid pickup lines that will guarantee a zero percent rejection rate. I know, it sounds too good to be true to go up to every woman and to end up fucking her and it IS really too good to be true.
The magical pickup line doesn’t exist. Success in the land of women without rejection doesn’t exist. The sooner you accept that rejection is a part of the game, the sooner you can become successful with women.
You Didn’t Fail
A lot of guys make the mistake and put rejection on a level with failure. This is one of the WORST things you can do to your inner game.
If a woman rejections you, you didn’t fail. Failure is when you go back home after a rejection and promise yourself to never approach a woman again in your life.
This is failure!
If you get rejected by a woman and you are willing to learn from this experience, to analyze what you did wrong and to promise yourself that you will keep on going and that you will continue to approach women, you didn’t fail!
In this case the rejection made you even more of a winner. The rejections that you experience give you the unique chance to improve your seduction skills and to strengthen your inner game. It’s a win-win situation.
Don’t Take it Personal
“It is my fault when I am getting rejected.”
“Is it because my nose is too big?”
“It is probably because I am way out of her league.”
If sentences like the ones I have just mentioned sound familiar to you, you definitely have to rethink the way you look at rejection. I know that many guys make the mistake and interpret every rejection as a personal insult.
Honestly, sometimes YOU or what YOU did is the last reason why a woman rejects you. There can be millions and millions of different reasons for why women reject you that have absolutely nothing to do with who you are and what you did.
Maybe you look like one of her ex-boyfriends who she really hates. Maybe she has an annoying boss who harassed her the whole morning and the last thing she wants to do now is to talk to a man. There can be so many different reasons why a girl rejects you. Don’t take it personal.
See the Positive Side
Do you remember that I have told you at the beginning that rejection can be a positive thing?
Good, now it is time to have a look at all the positive aspects that getting rejected brings along.
I have already told you that it is a great opportunity to learn and to improve yourself but this is by far not all. Another big advantage of rejection is that it allows you to avoid women who are not good for you.
What do I mean by that?
Imagine you are trying to “seduce” a woman by becoming her friend. Of course she doesn’t reject you because she has no reason to do so. After two years of friendship you finally tell her the truth, just to hear the famous words “you are nice, but” from her. You wasted two fucking years of your life with that girl!
If you are, however, very direct with a woman right from the start and she rejects you, she gives you the opportunity to move on and to find women who are interested in you and who don’t reject you.
Every rejection also saves you a lot of time. Some guys spend years trying to impress a certain girl, just to find out that she will never bang him.
How much time did you waste?
Five seconds. After five seconds of your life you know that this woman is not the right woman for you.
Perfect, move on and enjoy talking to the next girl who might be the right girl for you.
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