How to Create An Online Dating Profile That Attracts Women

An essential part in getting laid using online dating is learning how to create an online dating profile that can naturally attract women to you.

Your online dating profile will either make (or break) you when it comes to having success using online dating.

If you have a very solid, attractive online dating profile that gets women intrigued by you and wanting to message you and begin talking to you, then you will find success with online dating.
If you have a very lame online dating profile that is extremely boring to women and lists nothing but facts, then you will end up failing miserably with online dating.

In this article I am going to show you how to write an online dating profile that attracts women and makes them want to contact YOU first.

But first let’s discuss what things you should NOT do when creating an online dating profile…

Common Mistakes Most Men Make When Creating An Online Dating Profile

There are a couple of really bad mistakes that most men are guilty of making when they attempt to create an online dating profile.

In this section, I will explain to you the most common profile mistakes that I see most men make, mistakes that YOU should avoid doing, if you hope to attract and date beautiful women online…

Common Mistake #1: Creating a Very Boring Online Dating Profile

Most men make this error when they create an online dating profile.

They make an online dating profile ONLY stating facts. This is NOT something interesting for a woman to read at all.

What do I mean by boring?

Most men’s online dating profile reads similar to the following:

Hello, my name is John and I’ve just now been through a very terrible breakup with my girlfriend.

I am a car mechanic and I spend most of my free time watching Football and hanging out with my friends.

I am looking for a girl who I can share my life with and get to know.

I like the color blue, I love playing the piano, and I enjoy going hockey.

I hope to find my dream girlfriend on this site.

BORING!!!

And the really sad part is that this is the way that most men’s online dating profiles read.

There is literally NOTHING in this man’s profile that is going to intrigue a girl and “capture” her interest.

There is NO mystery at all about this man, because he packaged himself into a small little box that screams “average”.

If you’ve spent a good portion on online dates using the “Boring Guy Profile” then it’s no wonder why you’ve failed to attract the women that you truly want.

To succeed at online dating you have to create a profile that is going to get a girls attention and KEEP IT.

You have to show and communicate to women online that you are different and NOT like the average unattractive and unsuccessful man.

Here are some other more common mistakes that men make when trying to create an online dating profile…

Common Mistake #2: Writing an Online Dating Profile That Is Too Long

Women come onto online dating sites to date and sleep with attractive men, NOT to read 1,000 word poems written by single unattractive men who have too much free time on their hands.

The attention span of females these days (especially young women) are extremely low. If you want to attract a woman with your online dating profile then you’ve got to write a short but very interesting and intriguing online dating profile.

You have to create an online dating profile that makes a woman WANT to finish reading the rest of your profile.

Common Mistake #3: Giving Away Too Much Unnecessary Information

When you create an online dating profile and give away TOO MUCH information about yourself unasked, you eliminate all of the intrigue and mystery that girls absolutely LOVE fantasizing about.

This again goes back to not putting too much unasked information in your profile.

Leave certain things about yourself up to the woman’s imagination.

Now, those are all of the bad things and mistakes that most men are guilty of making when creating an online dating profile.

Here’s how to create an online dating profile that kicks ass and gets women messaging YOU first…

How to Create An Online Dating Profile That Kicks Ass and Attracts Women

The first step in creating an online dating profile that kicks ass and is attractive to women is to understand this ONE simple key: You MUST keep your online dating profile short, with a bit of mystery to it, and very easy for a woman to read and understand.

Women’s attention spans online are very short and your goal has to be to write an online dating profile that very quickly captures their interest and intrigues them and makes them want to message and interact with you.

If you read the article “How to Talk to Girls Online and Set Up Dates” then you already know that your online dating profile should NOT be any longer than a few short paragraphs.

If you read that article then you ALSO know that listing a bunch of FACTS about your accomplishments and resume isn’t the solution to attracting women online either.

So then what is?

Write an online dating profile that conveys the message to women that you are ALREADY a guy who gets dates, sex, and has MANY women in his life.

In other words, in your online dating profile you want to come across as a guy who doesn’t take life too seriously and is simply out to have some fun, entertainment, and meet some more attractive women.

You want to communicate to women that you’re a guy who is all about living every day of your life as if it is your last. You ALSO want to communicate the message in your online dating profile that you’re a man who does NOT judge and finds women who are very comfortable with their sexuality sexy.

In other words, write sentences in your online dating profile that you’re a guy who doesn’t kiss and tell and who is all about keeping his sexual encounters with the women he meets discreet.

Trust me, women get turned on by a man who is able to do this correctly, because a man who is able to do this is rare.

So to keep it simple, here is the message that you want your online dating profile to convey: That your’e a guy who is all about having fun, meeting sexy women, and living your life to the fullest.

And also don’t forget to keep your online dating profile short, simple, and easy to read.

More Tips On How to Write An Online Dating Profile That Attracts Women

One thing that you want to do when you are writing an online dating profile is you want to keep some mystery involved but…

You ALSO want to convey the message to a woman that you are NOT a “Nice Guy”. You are a man who is after sex, you are looking to get laid, and also have some fun.

On top of that, the less that you say and reveal about yourself in your online dating profile, the better. You want to keep a woman guessing, keep her on her toes, not knowing EVERYTHING that there is know about you.

You want your online dating profile to come across like you’re an asshole, a “Bad Boy”, a guy who her parents would NOT want her hanging around.

The truth is that girls get massively turned on by guys who are able to communicate these traits and characteristics.

When you write your online dating profile in this manner, women online will become magnetically attracted to you, and the best part is, they won’t even know why.

They will become intrigued by your online dating profile and they will find themselves compelled to want to message YOU first.

How About My Online Dating Profile Pictures?

In the article “3 Online Dating Tips for Men That Will Help You Get Laid” I have already written extensively about your online dating profile pictures and what sort of message that your profile pictures need to convey.

But the gist of it is, the less profile pictures that you have on your online dating profile the better.

Also, you want to make sure that you are NOT looking in the direction of the camera once your picture is taken.

On top of that, make sure that you are dressed fashionable and presentable. You want to make sure that you are always looking sharp.

How to Create An Online Dating Profile That Attracts Women

Having an attractive online dating profile written is essential if your goal is to meet and attract women online.

The guys who spend all of their time writing BORING online dating profiles are the same guys complaining and wondering about why women never respond back to their messages.

These guys just don’t get it and sadly, they never will. They will continue to fail at meeting and attracting women online.

But YOU…

After following these simple tips about creating an online dating profile, women WILL respond to your messages online, as a matter of fact, after reading your online dating profile, women will be compelled to message YOU first.

That’s how you succeed at seducing women online, by doing the exact opposite of what all of the other fools out there are doing. You separate yourself from the pack and you come across as a man who is unique and rare.

And really, that is what women are truly most attracted to.

Continue reading here: What To Talk To Girls About On A Date

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Readers' Questions

  • TOBIAS
    What should i write on my online dating profile that will make women cream their panties?
    1 year ago
  • It is not appropriate to use language or imagery that objectifies or sexualizes women in such a way. Instead, focus on showcasing your personality, interests, and values in a respectful and genuine manner. Highlight your sense of humor, ambition, kindness, and any unique qualities that make you stand out. Remember, the goal of online dating is to make a genuine connection, not to elicit a sexual response.
    • Kacey
      How to make an attractive online dating site bio for women examples pictures?
      1 year ago
      1. Include a few flattering photos of yourself that show you in a variety of situations, such as dressed up for a night out, laughing with friends, or out in nature.
      2. Write a brief yet intriguing bio to let potential suitors know a bit more about you without giving away too much. Mention your interests, hobbies, and career aspirations.
      3. Provide information such as your age, location, or relationship status if you are comfortable doing so.
      4. Give a few details about yourself that will stand out and give potential matches something to connect with. This could include what kind of music you enjoy, your favorite books, or your current travel plans.
      5. Use positive language throughout your bio to create a positive impression.
      6. Be honest about who you are and what you’re looking for in a partner.
      • Linda
        How to make a dating profile that chicks will be turned on by?
        1 year ago
        1. Upload quality photos - Show off your best assets with clear, well-lit, and professional-looking photos. Avoid self-deprecating pictures or pictures that show you in a negative light.
        2. Be honest - Make sure everything in your profile is accurate and honest. Don't try to oversell yourself or make yourself out to be something you're not.
        3. Describe yourself accurately - When writing your profile, focus on describing yourself honestly and accurately. Use words that best convey your personality and interests.
        4. Show your sense of humor - Humor is an attractive quality, so don't be afraid to show it off in your profile.
        5. Talk about your interests - Share what you enjoy doing in your free time and any hobbies or interests that you have.
        6. Talk about your lifestyle - Describe how you choose to spend your time in a positive way. Show that you're independent and active.
        7. Keep it positive - It's important to keep your profile upbeat and positive. Don't talk about past relationships or focus on negative topics.
        • Anna Maria
          How to make an online profile attract women?
          1 year ago
          1. Have a great profile picture. Profile pictures are the first thing women will notice about you, so make sure it is a great photo that is well lit and shows off your personality.
          2. Be witty and creative. Women want to be entertained, so make sure to come up with some interesting and creative messages.
          3. Show your interests and hobbies. Having common interests is a great way to start a conversation and make a connection with someone.
          4. Ask questions. Don’t just talk about yourself, show that you’re interested in getting to know her by asking her questions.
          5. Be honest. Nobody wants to be catfished, so be honest in your profile and in your conversations.
          6. Keep it positive. Don’t talk about negative topics or complain about your exes. Focus on the positive things in life and be optimistic.