How to Build an Emotional Connection With Women

When you understand and know how to build an emotional connection with women, you make getting girls a snap.

The men who are able to connect with women and relate to women on an emotional level are the men who women let their guards down with and develop good rapport with.

As a matter of fact, the biggest cause of women flaking on dates with you or not responding to your text messages is due to your failure and inability to build a powerful emotional connection with them.

This is why after the “average man” get’s a girl’s phone number and tries sending her a text message, she usually responds back to him with “Who Is This?”

Why doesn’t the girl remember who this man is and respond back to this man with this text message?

The man’s inability to build an emotional connection with this woman, and because of this she doesn’t remember exactly why she chose to give this man her phone number.

But if you’re a man who’s ready to make girls excited to respond back to the text messages that you send them, if you’re a man who’s ready to make girls begin telling you all of their deepest and darkest secrets, then learning how to build an emotional connection with women is one of THE most important skills that you can possibly learn.

And this article will show you exactly how to do that…

The 3 Steps to Building an Emotional Connection With Women

When trying to build an emotional connection with women, there are three important rules to keep in mind. The first step to remember is to have good listening skills. Be sure to listen to not only what she says, but ALSO how it made her feel.

Use positive communication skills such as repeating what she says from time to time and offering a thought-out response that shows that you understood how she felt. This illustrates your ability to take what she has said and infer her emotions.

I have said this millions of times already on this blog, but it is well worth repeating: Getting women to do most of the talking is the KEY to building attraction with them and the ONLY way to get women to do most of the talking in a conversation is to become a very good listener.

Which brings us to my next point on how to build an emotional connection with the women that you meet…

Connecting With Women Means You Must Get Women to Do Most Of The Talking

Another important step to building an emotional connection, is to get women to do most of the talking. Women feel more connected to you not based on how much that she knows about YOU, but based on how much that you know about HER.

How do you get women to do most of the talking in your conversations with them?

Ask them thought provoking questions that force them to have to think. Ask women questions that will cause them to elicit some deep personal feelings.

For example:

Guy: What do you do for work?

Girl: Oh, right now I am a nurse.

Guy: Wow, what led you to become a nurse? Where do you see yourself and your career ending up in 2 years?

THIS is how you build an emotional connection with women. You take an answer or a statement that they give you and you try to dig deeper, probe deeper, and get to the bottom of exactly WHY she chose the field or career that she is in or exactly WHY she enjoys doing a certain hobby instead of another hobby.

Building an emotional connection with women really comes down to getting women to share with you their passions, hopes, dreams, and even fears. Building an emotional connection with a woman is about really getting to know a girl on a deep personal level that nobody else knows her on.

This is how you get girls thinking about you and lusting after you even when you aren’t there near them. You are a guy who “gets her” and understands her. Your attraction to her is not based just on looks but ALSO on her personality, her work ethic, what she stands for and fights for in her life. And because of this, you are a man who is RARE.

Most men are unable to really get to know a girl on a deep personal level in a span of just 10 minutes. And this is because youre not just asking her surface level questions like “Where do you work?” or “What do you do for a living?” Oh no, you’re asking her questions to dig deeper and really get to know her as a true and unique human being.

Which brings us to the final step on how to build an emotional connection with women

Connecting With Women Is About Learning How to Relate to Women

To connect with someone really in its simplist terms simply means to relate to that person. When women feel like you can relate to them, they begin to trust you and lower their guards around you. When women feel like you can relate to them, they become much more willing to follow your commands and they are a lot more likely to agree to the dates and other plans that you suggest.

How do you learn to relate with women?

By the both of you sharing your stories and experiences with each other. You both begin to learn new, fascinating, and interesting things about the other person.

She shares and tells you what she is passionate about, you share and tell her what YOU are passionate about. She tells you a dream that she hopes to accomplish in the future, you tell her a personal goal that YOU personally set for yourself and hope to accomplish.

Doing this, helps the both of you to build trust and establish good rapport between one another. And the best of all, you are both relating and connecting with one another, which makes the rest of your seduction process EASY.

How Important Is It to Build an Emotional Connection With Women?

Extremely important. The difference between a man who women regularly flake on and a man who women constantly text message and willingly show up on dates with is that one man is unable to connect with women on a deep, emotional level and one man IS.

When you are to build an emotional connection with women:

  • And you make that first phone call to a girl, she will always pick up
  • And you text a girl to arrange a date, she will always reply back and agree to the date
  • And you ask a girl for her phone number, she will always give it to you
  • And you invite a girl back to your place with the intentions of having sex, she will always agree to it

Learning how to build an emotional connection with women could perhaps be THE most important skill set related to improving with women that you can possibly learn.

  • Yes, looks DO matter and your appearance IS important
  • Yes, having money DOES help you attract girls to you much easier and with much less effort
  • And yes, having solid body language fundamentals is ALSO very important

But in the end, if you cant connect with the women who ARE already attracted to you and very much want you, if you are unable to connect with the women who admire your good sense of fashion, then you might as well give up.

  • She won’t be responding to your text message
  • She WILL say NO when you ask her out to get a drink
  • And you WILL certainly be stuck chasing girls for months on end hoping to get “lucky”

But the man who spends his time mastering how to connect with women, and mastering getting to know a girl on a deep and personal level, and really relate to her…

THAT man is special and he is RARE.

The question is, will that man be YOU or somebody else?

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Readers' Questions

  • deodata
    How to make a girl emotionally addicted to you?
    1 year ago
    1. Respect her - Show her that you care and respect her by actively listening when she speaks, taking an interest in her life, and being honest and caring in your interactions.
    2. Make her feel special - Tell her how much she means to you and how unique she is. Give her compliments and make her feel like she is the only one for you.
    3. Express your feelings - Let her know how you feel about her in a genuine way. Express your feelings through words, actions, and gestures.
    4. Spend time together - Spend time with her doing things that you both enjoy. This could be anything from watching a movie to exploring a new city together.
    5. Communicate - Make sure you both communicate openly and honestly with each other. Ask her how she feels and be receptive to her answers.
    6. Show her affection - Show her affection through physical touch, words, and gestures. Make her feel appreciated and desired by expressing your love and admiration.
    • katharina
      How to establish deep emotional connection with women?
      1 year ago
      1. Show genuine interest in her. Ask questions and really listen to her answers. If she talks about something, take it as an opportunity to get to know her better and build a deeper connection.
      2. Share your thoughts and feelings. Let her know what you think and feel about various topics and experiences you both have.
      3. Spend quality time together. Doing activities together such as going for a walk, cooking together or playing a game can help you both develop trust.
      4. Express appreciation. Compliment her on things you like about her and let her know how much you appreciate her.
      5. Be vulnerable. A deep emotional connection requires both of you to be open and honest with each other.
      6. Communicate effectively. Show her that you are willing to listen and trust her if she shares something with you.
      7. Give and receive support. Make sure that you are there for each other in difficult times and celebrate successes with each other.
      • jessica
        How to make connection with american girls?
        1 year ago
      • There are many ways to connect with American girls. Here are some ideas:
        1. Join a local club or organization that caters to women. This could be anything from a running club, a book club, a meetup group, a dance class, or an art class.
        2. Attend a workshop or seminar that caters to women.
        3. Attend a networking event or meetup specifically for women.
        4. Join an online dating site and look for American girls in your area.
        5. Join a Facebook group or chatroom that focuses on specific topics or interests that would interest American girls.
        6. Connect with American girls through social media. Try to find groups, conversations, or accounts that you can join to engage with other like-minded American girls.
        7. Don't be afraid to be the one to reach out and make the first move. Don't be afraid to start a conversation by sending an email or DM on social media.
        • Gabrielle Grant
          How to establish a emotional connection with a goth woman?
          1 year ago
          1. Respect her boundaries. Ask her questions to better understand her preferences and try to stay away from topics that she is uncomfortable with.
          2. Listen to her. Show her that you genuinely care and are interested in her opinions and experiences, without judgment.
          3. Show appreciation for her unique style. Let her know that you appreciate her style and take notice of the specialness that it adds to her life.
          4. Connect with her on a deeper level. Talk about her feelings and emotions, especially topics that are important to her. Ask questions about her perspectives on life and show that you understand what she’s going through.
          5. Spend quality time together. Spend time doing things that she enjoys, like attending goth concerts, festivals, or other gatherings. Show her that you are willing to experience the world through her eyes and appreciate her interests.
          • roma
            How to build emotional connection through text?
            1 year ago
            1. Ask Open-Ended Questions: Asking open-ended questions is a great way to encourage conversation and build emotional connections. Invite the other person to share their opinions, thoughts, and feelings about a subject.
            2. Share Personal Stories: Sharing stories and anecdotes about your own life and experiences can help to create an emotional connection with the other person. It can help them to see you as a real, relatable person and not just as someone behind a computer or phone texting.
            3. Be Open and Honest: Be as open and honest as you can when texting someone. Don’t be afraid to open up and show your true emotions or feelings. This will help to create a genuine, trusting relationship.
            4. Use Emojis: Emojis are a great way to express emotions and feelings in a text. They can be used to add a bit of humor, add extra emphasis to a point, or even express sympathy.
            5. Compliment Them: Complimenting someone on something they’ve done or said can be a great way to build an emotional connection. It will make them feel appreciated and valued, which can be a great foundation for a strong relationship.
            • Laura
              How to connect with women?
              1 year ago
            • There are many ways to connect with women, but it largely depends on the context. If you're interested in pursuing a romantic relationship, start by getting to know them on a deeper level. Ask them questions about themselves and their interests, and be sure to actively listen to the answers. If you're trying to make friends, look for social activities or events that appeal to you and attend them. Once you meet someone, be sure to make eye contact, smile, and introduce yourself. Finally, be patient and take your time. Building meaningful relationships takes time, and it's important to give both sides a chance to get to know each other.
              • MIKKI
                How to connect with a girl emotionally?
                1 year ago
                1. Listen to her and ask questions. Show genuine interest in her thoughts, opinions, and feelings.
                2. Show that you care by doing small acts of kindness. Offer a hug, make her a cup of tea, cook her dinner, send her a thoughtful text, or share something that makes you think of her.
                3. Spend quality time together doing activities that you both enjoy. This could be going for a walk, playing a game, watching a movie, or engaging in a shared hobby.
                4. Be emotionally available and honest. Share your own feelings and vulnerabilities with her in a way that is appropriate.
                5. Encourage her to talk about her emotions. Let her know that it's OK to express her feelings and that you are there to listen.
                6. Show her that your relationship is valuable to you. Compliment her, express your appreciation for her, and let her know that you are committed to maintaining a strong connection.
                • janice
                  How to connect with my girl on an emotional level?
                  1 year ago
                • The best way to connect emotionally with someone is through open and honest communication. Take the time to really listen to what she has to say, and ask thoughtful questions about her thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Spend quality time together and engage in meaningful activities, such as taking walks and talking about things that really matter to both of you. Show her love and appreciation with small gestures and meaningful compliments. Also, be vulnerable and share your innermost thoughts and feelings with her. Finally, make sure you both take the time to build a strong foundation of trust and understanding.
                  • aziz
                    How to connect emotionally with a woman?
                    1 year ago
                    1. Make eye contact. Eye contact is an important part of connecting emotionally with someone. Make sure to look into her eyes when you talk to her and allow her to look into yours.
                    2. Listen carefully. Listening is one of the most important elements of connecting emotionally with someone. Show that you're interested in what she has to say and let her know that you're paying attention.
                    3. Share your thoughts and feelings. To connect emotionally with someone, be open and honest about your thoughts and feelings. If she does the same in response, it will strengthen your emotional connection.
                    4. Show your support. People usually feel more connected to someone who is supportive of their actions and decisions. Let her know that you support her and will be there for her.
                    5. Spend quality time together. Spending time together and doing activities that you both enjoy is another great way to connect emotionally. This will give you the opportunity to get to know each other better and form a deeper bond.
                    • gerald
                      How to build an emotional connection with a woman?
                      1 year ago
                      1. Make eye contact: The most basic way to build an emotional connection with a woman is to make regular eye contact. Try to look her in the eye during conversations and when you’re speaking with her.
                      2. Ask questions to get to know her: Show curiosity about her and ask her questions about her life, her interests, her family, her work, and her hobbies. This will help you get to know her better and will create a more emotional connection.
                      3. Show genuine interest in her: If you’re genuinely interested in her and what she has to say, she will feel an emotional connection with you. Listen closely while she speaks and validate her feelings.
                      4. Spend quality time together: Spend quality time with her, alone or in a group situation. During this time, pay attention to her and talk about meaningful topics.
                      5. Show that you care: Show her that you care about her and that you're truly invested in the relationship. This can be done through small gestures, such as buying her a small gift or doing something special for her.
                      6. Touch her: Touching is a powerful way to create an emotional connection with a woman. Make physical contact with her, such as holding her hand, giving her a hug, or touching her arm or back. However, make sure that you always respect her personal boundaries.
                      • john spencer
                        How to connect with a woman?
                        1 year ago
                      • The best way to connect with a woman is to start by showing genuine interest in getting to know her and finding out what she enjoys. Listen to what she has to say, be respectful of her opinions, and show her that you care. Ask her questions and make sure to give her plenty of space to open up. Compliment her and make her feel special and appreciated. Put in the effort to build a positive connection, and you’ll be well on your way to developing a strong relationship.