How to Build an Emotional Connection With Women
When you understand and know how to build an emotional connection with women, you make getting girls a snap.
The men who are able to connect with women and relate to women on an emotional level are the men who women let their guards down with and develop good rapport with.
As a matter of fact, the biggest cause of women flaking on dates with you or not responding to your text messages is due to your failure and inability to build a powerful emotional connection with them.
This is why after the “average man” get’s a girl’s phone number and tries sending her a text message, she usually responds back to him with “Who Is This?”
Why doesn’t the girl remember who this man is and respond back to this man with this text message?
The man’s inability to build an emotional connection with this woman, and because of this she doesn’t remember exactly why she chose to give this man her phone number.
But if you’re a man who’s ready to make girls excited to respond back to the text messages that you send them, if you’re a man who’s ready to make girls begin telling you all of their deepest and darkest secrets, then learning how to build an emotional connection with women is one of THE most important skills that you can possibly learn.
And this article will show you exactly how to do that…
The 3 Steps to Building an Emotional Connection With Women
When trying to build an emotional connection with women, there are three important rules to keep in mind. The first step to remember is to have good listening skills. Be sure to listen to not only what she says, but ALSO how it made her feel.
Use positive communication skills such as repeating what she says from time to time and offering a thought-out response that shows that you understood how she felt. This illustrates your ability to take what she has said and infer her emotions.
I have said this millions of times already on this blog, but it is well worth repeating: Getting women to do most of the talking is the KEY to building attraction with them and the ONLY way to get women to do most of the talking in a conversation is to become a very good listener.
Which brings us to my next point on how to build an emotional connection with the women that you meet…
Connecting With Women Means You Must Get Women to Do Most Of The Talking
Another important step to building an emotional connection, is to get women to do most of the talking. Women feel more connected to you not based on how much that she knows about YOU, but based on how much that you know about HER.
How do you get women to do most of the talking in your conversations with them?
Ask them thought provoking questions that force them to have to think. Ask women questions that will cause them to elicit some deep personal feelings.
Guy: What do you do for work?
Girl: Oh, right now I am a nurse.
Guy: Wow, what led you to become a nurse? Where do you see yourself and your career ending up in 2 years?
THIS is how you build an emotional connection with women. You take an answer or a statement that they give you and you try to dig deeper, probe deeper, and get to the bottom of exactly WHY she chose the field or career that she is in or exactly WHY she enjoys doing a certain hobby instead of another hobby.
Building an emotional connection with women really comes down to getting women to share with you their passions, hopes, dreams, and even fears. Building an emotional connection with a woman is about really getting to know a girl on a deep personal level that nobody else knows her on.
This is how you get girls thinking about you and lusting after you even when you aren’t there near them. You are a guy who “gets her” and understands her. Your attraction to her is not based just on looks but ALSO on her personality, her work ethic, what she stands for and fights for in her life. And because of this, you are a man who is RARE.
Most men are unable to really get to know a girl on a deep personal level in a span of just 10 minutes. And this is because youre not just asking her surface level questions like “Where do you work?” or “What do you do for a living?” Oh no, you’re asking her questions to dig deeper and really get to know her as a true and unique human being.
Which brings us to the final step on how to build an emotional connection with women
Connecting With Women Is About Learning How to Relate to Women
To connect with someone really in its simplist terms simply means to relate to that person. When women feel like you can relate to them, they begin to trust you and lower their guards around you. When women feel like you can relate to them, they become much more willing to follow your commands and they are a lot more likely to agree to the dates and other plans that you suggest.
How do you learn to relate with women?
By the both of you sharing your stories and experiences with each other. You both begin to learn new, fascinating, and interesting things about the other person.
She shares and tells you what she is passionate about, you share and tell her what YOU are passionate about. She tells you a dream that she hopes to accomplish in the future, you tell her a personal goal that YOU personally set for yourself and hope to accomplish.
Doing this, helps the both of you to build trust and establish good rapport between one another. And the best of all, you are both relating and connecting with one another, which makes the rest of your seduction process EASY.
How Important Is It to Build an Emotional Connection With Women?
Extremely important. The difference between a man who women regularly flake on and a man who women constantly text message and willingly show up on dates with is that one man is unable to connect with women on a deep, emotional level and one man IS.
When you are to build an emotional connection with women:
- And you make that first phone call to a girl, she will always pick up
- And you text a girl to arrange a date, she will always reply back and agree to the date
- And you ask a girl for her phone number, she will always give it to you
- And you invite a girl back to your place with the intentions of having sex, she will always agree to it
Learning how to build an emotional connection with women could perhaps be THE most important skill set related to improving with women that you can possibly learn.
- Yes, looks DO matter and your appearance IS important
- Yes, having money DOES help you attract girls to you much easier and with much less effort
- And yes, having solid body language fundamentals is ALSO very important
But in the end, if you cant connect with the women who ARE already attracted to you and very much want you, if you are unable to connect with the women who admire your good sense of fashion, then you might as well give up.
- She won’t be responding to your text message
- She WILL say NO when you ask her out to get a drink
- And you WILL certainly be stuck chasing girls for months on end hoping to get “lucky”
But the man who spends his time mastering how to connect with women, and mastering getting to know a girl on a deep and personal level, and really relate to her…
THAT man is special and he is RARE.
The question is, will that man be YOU or somebody else?
– Malcolm Thomas