Attracting Women Is Easy: Here's Why

Attracting Women

Yes, you read the title right.

Attracting women is easy. The problem is that most guys make it hard.

As we discussed in the post “How To Get Women Attracted In 3 Easy Steps”, most men make dating and seduction more difficult than it has to be.

Attracting women is something that should be effortless. It should be natural. Dare I say it should be easy.

In this post I will explain to you why.

There Are 2 Types Of Men…

Men Who Work Hard and Men Who Work Smart.

  • A guy who works hard will approach woman after woman and face rejection after rejection.
  • A guy who works smart will look to see which women are interested by the signs that they give him before approaching.
  • A guy who works hard will text the same girl 50 times because he likes her and wants to take her out.
  • A guy who works smart will text 25 different women 2 times each knowing that most women view neediness as unattractive.
  • A guy who works hard will spend his time complaining that women do not find him attractive and are therefore shallow and stupid.
  • A guy who works smart will look to see what attractive qualities that women best respond to and will try to learn what makes women tick.

The major difference between a guy who works hard and a guy who works smart is his mindset.

That’s what differentiates the men who find success with women and the men who constantly face rejection and fail with women.

You can either choose to change your mindset and do things that women find attractive or you can choose to blame your problems and frustrations on other people and stay miserable.

If you choose to make attracting women something complicated, then it will be complicated. But if you choose to make attracting women something easy, well then it will be easy.

Start Attracting Women Today…

So now that you understand why your mindset is so important, I want to arm you with a few tips you can implement to begin attracting more women today.

1) Approach lots of women: This tip is crucial for many reasons, the main one being that as a man you always want to have options in your choice of women.

A man with no options is a man with no women. Period.

In case you haven’t already noticed, women are attracted to men who other women want. That means that if you have few or no women in your life, other women will not want to be around you.

What this means if you must begin approaching and interacting with lots of different women.

By doing this you will begin to develop an abundance mentality, date more women, and more importantly sleep with more women.

2) Recognize the signals that women give you: This is a big one. Many men still can not notice when a girl is interested in them. Here’s how you tell:

  1. She will begin to hover around you and give you a chance and opportunity to speak to her.
  2. She will begin playing with her hair and fix her clothes.
  3. She will try to make eye contact with you and smile in your direction.

Here’s the truth: Most women will not make the first move. The onus is on you to make the first move, but… women will give you hints and suggestions about whether or not they want you to approach them.

Now if you claim that you don’t get many signals from women, then all that means is that you must work on your fundamentals some more. This means dressing better, developing better hygiene, fixing your posture, and growing some sexy facial hair.

You must turn yourself into a more attractive man. Women spend hours working on how they look and developing their sense of fashion. Now it’s time for you to work on yours.

3) Screen out the women who aren’t interested in you sexually or romantically: This is another mistake that most men are guilty of.

They will spend hours and hours talking to a chick who isn’t interested in fucking them. Warning: Women love to talk. Women also love attention. If you’re cool with being a chick’s platonic guy pal and courting her and listening to all of her problems, then sure give her a lot of attention and don’t make a move.

But… for the guys who are interested in having lovers and girlfriends, screen out the women who aren’t interested in you sexually.

This means not beating around the bush when you first approach a woman. This means getting a woman’s phone number and setting up a date quickly. It also means bedding her fast also.

Guys who move slow with women are guys who also don’t get laid. If you ask a woman out and she refuses and shows no sexual or romantic interest in you, here’s my advice: Screen her out and talk to other women.

When you begin implementing this advice: Approaching lots of women, Recognizing the signals that women give you, and screening out the women who aren’t interested in you sexually or romantically, you begin to realize that attracting women IS EASY.

It’s only difficult for the guys who don’t have a solid process down yet, and are hitting on woman after woman without working smart.

You can either choose to approach women and dating the smart way or the hard way.

Which way do you prefer?

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